Happy Friday everyone! I missed you all last week and apologize for not posting last week. But lets just back in!
What is it worth? What do I mean? What is your mental health and sanity worth? In my opinion, priceless. There isn't one person or any amount of money that is worth giving up your mental stability. Too many times have we, and I am guilty of this myself, let other people have influence over things we do and our opinions on different things that happen in our lives. It doesn't mean you're weak, it just happens. In the last few months I have done a lot of thinking, meditating and seeking to find what I, Amber, wants in life and out of life. So often our mind and judgement is so clouded with the influence of others, we forget about ourselves. Coming to this realization sometimes comes at a cost, relationships and friendships are some of the things I have had to let go of, in order to keep my mental health stable. We have so many things we can achieve and aspire to do that time should not be wasted on people and things that mean us no good. Sometimes you have to hit that "DELETE" button and not feel guilty about doing it. What good are you to others if you yourself are tapped out? This is the truth I am living in right now. I can no longer surround myself with things and people who do not benefit me. Benefit? Yes, benefit. Are they motivating you to move forward? To reach your goals? Are they supporting you? Even if you are thriving more than they are? Will they lend you an ear if you just need to vent? If the answer to any of these questions is no, or you find that you do all these things and there is no reciprocation, it's time to re-evaluate, and quickly. I will no longer compromise my mental health or sanity to make someone else comfortable. It. Is. Not. Worth. It. Clean out your closet, close the circle and move forward. You will thank yourself! Thanks for taking the time to read this post. As always May Peace. Find You. Always.